1. When he takes prayers carelessly and is not motivated to pray even when there is a real reason to do so. When prayers becomes a chore other than a joy to speak to God, when he gives you excuses why he will not be able to pray and this happens continuously. When you have spiritual warfare right at your door and this man refuses to rise up and pray. When you see spiritual needs treated carelessly and Gods principles are being compromised without remorse and accountability. When disobedience to Gods word is very trivial. When he makes YOU his excuse why he is not praying then you must know an enemy is about to strike your man WAKE UP!
2. When he is not listening to counselors and treats advisers with levity: If your man does not not listen to anyone with respect enough to obey their God led advice upon his life, if he does not respect His counselors enough to take their calls or return them. When there is no one he adhere's to, when you notice nobody can get to him he is isolated and being set up for destruction WAKE UP and pray for your man!
3. When he deliberately hurts you and don’t apologize: when compassion level is zero, he blatantly tells you when he hurts you ''am not apologizing to you'' even with tears in your eyes he does not feel for your pain, even if you cry whole night beside him sleeping, he is never conscious of your pain he distance himself from what you are going through, your feelings are no more his concern WAKE UP and pray for your man!
4. When he gaslights you frequently and make you feel like you are insane in your thinking something has changed in that man: when gaslighting becomes the order of the day, he twists issues and make it your fault, he turns every issue over to you as being the causer, he makes you doubt yourself if you are thinking right. He magnifies little issues that can be easily solved or over looked with one am sorry. WAKE UP and pray for your man!
5. When spiritual warfare is looked upon with dismay and he does not take action even when demons are in his territory: any time a man refuses to fight spiritual warfare with you, especially when it concerns the family or someone close, he always like to pass the box over to you, is not taking responsibilities for the spiritual well being of yours and the family. He distance himself from his spiritual responsibilities as a priest even tho you have encouraged and do all the right things WAKE UP and pray for your man!
6. When he refused to make peace with his wife and continues in malice for many months on end: when breaking communication is the order of the day and has now become a life style, every issue will result in a malice and break in communication and this continuous for a long time and if you don't try to make the peace he will keep it that way forever. WAKE UP and pray for your man!
7. When he starts to keep his phone from you which was never your style in the relationship, openness is lost: when he hides everything that is happening around him from you he does not tell you most things, he hides a lot and that includes his phone and electronic messages. when you try to ask about things you get a quarrel instead of an answer. no matter how lovingly you ask them. Your questions are now becoming a bore and a chore that he dodges you all round and even left the house in the morning without good byes, he comes to bed when you are asleep so you will not have the opportunity to ask him anything then he leaves the house at the slightest argument, WAKE UP and pray for your man!
8. When he continuously return home late without any explanation and your inquiry brings trouble for you: when work is much more important than your marriage relationship which you have always prioritize before but now is no more important. When your calls are not returned or messages treated with disdain. when he will not tell you about his late work plans except when you ask or when he is already doing the late work then he will say when you ask. Inquiring about his whereabouts brings you trouble WAKE UP and pray for your man!
9. When he starts treating you adversely different from your early years when it’s not a positive growth change but a negative change: when you notice a striking change in his behavior towards you showing hate other than love, looking for opportunities to hurt you other than love you, he is leaving his former positive character that once pull you towards him and he is decreasing in growth and positive attitude towards you. He shows unwillingness to adapt, to change, or to tweek his behavior that will help your relationship move up in a better footing. When he refuses to do what is good to the marriage and is slow or never making good decisions that will help your marriage.
10. When your feelings are ignored and nothing about your pain touches him to change: when you husband does not give you listening ears and is unwilling to listen to your feelings wither they are hurtful or otherwise, when he does not pay attention to what is important to you, when he prefers others to you, doing people pleasing at your expense, when his body language and attitude tells you he don't care about you and has dare to say it '' lets go our seperate ways'' or he has hurt you so much that you have to ask for the seperation to keep sane WAKE UP and pray for your man!
WAKE UP AND PRAY FOR YOUR HELP MATE HE NEEDS YOU NOW MORE THAN EVER BEFORE
Regina Peters-Moore
WPH
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