Proverbs 31:11- ‘’ The heart of her husband safely trusts in her so that he has no need of spoil’’
In studying the lifestyle of this powerful woman of high standards, I notice that the way she has conducted herself has raised high level of trust from her husband.
Trust keeps a marriage at peace. The husband has no sleepless nights when she goes out on a business trip, workshops, seminars or conferences. If she said she is with her girlfriends socialising he is sure she is there.
He has no reason to plant cameras or spies all over the place. He does not have to drive secretly behind her and watch her moves from afar. If she is going shopping that’s where she is. The man is at peace.
There is no need to panic over this woman or listen to gainsayers. He knows her too well to go frenzy over her issues. If she is talking to a male colleague or friend, his blood levels and heart beat does not mount up. He has no reason to change his countenance as he is so sure that all is well.
Building trust in your husband’s heart, starts from the foundation of the relationship. Before marriage, there should be openness - no hidden past present or future. Everything is clear from the beginning. The maturity level of the partner can also help in handling information on the past sickness or strong family issues. This level of trust can be built upon in marriage. This helps to keep stability and peace in the home.
Now go and be a trustworthy woman this year.
Hello again ladies,
ReplyDeleteHere is the first characteristic of a woman of noble character - a virtuous woman. It is all about being trustworthy.
Let this be a character we choose to possess.
May God bless you as you allow the word of God bear fruit in your life.
Much love
Sister Aije